The original poster, Gale2323, who later shared that he’s in his teens, responded to the thread: I’m glad to know I’m not the only one who has this problem!” I like sex just as much as any other guy but I’d like to have a normal relationship too. I guess that the gay community has been all about sex since a real relationship was so stigmatized. Gay men are so much more than their sexual proclivities, but society (and particular subsets of gay culture) tend to only focus on the sexual.“ “I think what Gale may be getting at is that there is the perception that homosexuals are largely defined by whom they have sex with, rather than who they are. Others think the issue is one of perception on the part of society: But I’m well aware that there needs to be a great balance between romanticism and sexuality.” And understandably, now we’re hypersexual because of the lost time and the mental subjugation by this heteronormative society.
We never had that teenage phase of dating or the first kiss. We weren’t allowed to think or to feel or to act in accordance of our natural desire. “Gay culture has been so underdeveloped in the case of sexuality. One Redditor blamed the sexual nature of gay men on having missed out in our teens.
